1)A good name is better than good oil, and the day of death is better than the day of birth. 

2)Better to go to the house of mourning than to the house of feasting, for that is the end of every man, and the living should take it to heart. 

 3)Better is distress than laughter, for the sadness of the face makes the heart better. 

 4)The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning, but the heart of the stupid is in the house of rejoicing.